NEWBIE ESCORT START-UP KIT

“Newbie Escort Start up Kit”…

What’s a good start up kit and some good advice for new and upcoming escorts who are just starting out due to $$$ issues?

For Starters…
a) Consider the necessary items to keep you healthy, clean and safe from harm.  A good start-up kit is:
**CA$H– A minimum of $150, preferably around $250-$1000
**TIME– Enough time to do thorough research; at least a full day to yourself, preferably a weekend.
**Digital Quality Camera (around at least 8 megapixels), or a smartphone camera of at least 8 megapixels.
**One or two pieces of lingerie and a pair of sexy heels (Target, Dots and Walmart have colorful bra and panty sets for under $20; Also, Payless, Rainbow and most consignment shops have high heels for under $20, if you are strapped for cash)
**Toiletry Essentials:  Mini Mouthwash, Mints/Gum, baby wipes, mild soaps and lotions (nothing too strong), etc.
**Latex Condoms (polyurethane is fine too, but latex is CDC-recommended) in every size; **Latex-Safe Lubricant (preferably water-based).  If you don’t know how to use condoms or which lubes are the safest for you, read up: http://www.dummies.c…s-possible.html
**The address of and Directions to the nearest emergency contraceptive carrier.  Hopefully you’ll never have to utilize such a service, but better safe than sorry.
**Pepper Spray or taser gun, and a faux gun (to scare away predators); hopefully you’ll NEVER have to use this, but you never know if you’ll be in a dangerous situation where you’d be otherwise defenseless.

b) Buy a cheap pay-as-you-go phone so you don’t have to give your personal number out or be worried about answering work calls at inappropriate moments. You can also destroy the SIM card whenever you decide to stop the work.  Another option is Google Voice, which allows you to have two lines on one phone, thus saving you $$$.

c) Have a computer or wi-fi/4-G capable smartphone handy to quickly and effectively place ads simultaneously in several places.  Some may say it’s not imperative to have internet access, but I disagree.  If you want to optimize your exposure to the right clients, you must have internet access in this day and age.

d) Learn the terms and acronyms used in the escort industry to avoid misunderstandings with potential clients:
http://dating.com/ar…t-abbreviations

e) Take some decent photos!  Most cameras have a function that allows timed self portraits.  Take advantage of that.  Try to refrain from cell phone photos; they look cheap and low quality.  Even webcam pics are better than cellphone pics.

f) Create A website!  Grab a FREE website, blogsite or photo portfolio site at one of the following urls:
http://EscortDesign.com
http://EscortSite.com
http://EscortBook.com
g) Advertise!  Try starting out FREE and CHEAP first with:
FREE: 
http://openadultdirectory.com
http://escortpost.com
http://localescortpages.com
http://NaughtyReviews.com
http://avenue-x.com
http://cityadx.com
http://miami.worldescortguide.com
http://www.miamiescorts.biz/
http://selectmiami.com
http://fantasyescortguide.com
http://cityoflove.com
http://myproviderguide.com
http://providerreport.com
http://lustlust.com
http://playpages.com
http://miami-dade.cl…female-escorts/
http://escortography.com
http://escortway.com
http://exotics.com
http://escortmeetings.com
http://southerngfe.com
http://sexyescortads.com
http://www.escortdir…orts-miami-323#
http://www.femalecompanions.com/
http://www.mynewback…escorts.php-420
CHEAP: 
http://cityvibe.com (please be extra alert and screen vigorously here)
http://backpage.com (please be extra alert and screen vigorously here)
http://verifiedplaymates.com
http://supermodelescorts.com
http://miamisescorts…nt-escort-girls
LATER, as you gain more reviews and experience, you’ll want to gravitate toward P411, TER and Eros.  The investment for Eros is a little high, but your first date will cover the cost and the rest of your dates will be pure profit, so if you really think about it, Eros is a good deal icon_wink.gifh) Rent an incall asap, whether a nice hotel via priceline.com discounts, or a private studio or apartment. 
Try shacking up with another escort to reduce private incall co$ts.  Keep your incall comfortable and clean.  Add little romantic accents like candles, $1 red light bulbs, crisp cream-colored sheets, and .  Go the extra mile and grab a few fresh flowers, incense, feather boas, Super Walmart $2.50 grapes/strawberries and $5 wine.
Find transportation, either a driver, your own car, or public transportation (not recommended), if you intend to do outcalls.
i) Take an effective Crash course in SEX EDUCATION to keep informed and educated on STD’s, Sexual Health, Rape and Violence against Women.  HERE is a quick primer I wrote in this forum (you must be logged in as a provider to read):  http://independentgi…-safer-sex-101/
j) Become well acquainted with the following client screening AND blacklist sites and utilize them for every single potential customer:
http://Preferred411.com
http://VerifyHim.com
http://Date-Check.com
http://NationalBlacklist.com
http://Dangerzone411.com
DOWNLOAD THIS FREE SCREENING MANUAL FROM PILLOWTALKFORUM: http://pillowtalkfor…ction=page;id=9
OR, DOWNLOAD AND USE THIS SCREENING FORM I COMPILED BELOW, WHENEVER YOU WANT: http://www.fileswap…._form.docx.html
USE THIS FREE SCREENING TOOL: http://www.myhoneysu…screening-tool/
AND TRY SAFE OFFICE TO SCREEN AND FOR TOURING: http://www.safeoffice.com/

SOME OTHER QUICK START UP TIPS TO CONSIDER (read more at saafe.info):
1) Think about your privacy. 
Decide on a working name for yourself – don’t use your real name unless you want everyone knowing your personal business. Decide if you are happy to use photos showing your face or other identifying info. If you aren’t, don’t give them to anyone – once they are out there, you lose all control over what happens to them.
If you decide on a website, do not register your own domain name without adding a privacy option or your name and address will be available to all via a simple “WHOIS” search. If someone else registers it for you, then make sure you have proof that it is actually yours.
2) Get the money first.
That includes getting the cash from clients before anything happens and, if you decide to use an agency, not giving them any money until you have cash in your hand from a client.
3) Think about your sexual health.
The vast majority of escort bookings involve being sexual with men. While using condoms each time you have intercourse with clients or anyone is highly recommended, will you use another form of contraception too? Purchase branded condoms and make sure you don’t run out – you don’t want to have to run out during a booking to get more or to hope that ones supplied by a client are okay. Different escorts have different preferences for condoms – try several kinds. Have a few small and extra large ones handy just in case you get a maggot scrotum or donkey dick, and don’t forget the condom-friendly lube!
4) Think again about your sexual health.
Book an appointment at a local sexual health clinic and ask for the Hepatitis B jab which is given to people in personal services jobs such as nurses etc. If you will be ‘rimming’ or otherwise potentially in contact with clients’ poo, tell them and they should also give you the Hepatitis A jab. The service should be confidential so do explain to them what you do for a living so they can advise you accordingly but don’t offer your real name if you don’t feel comfortable doing so – you will need to give correct contact details though in case of a problem. Just remember what name you use when you book your next appointment!
5) Think yet again about your sexual and emotional health.
Decide on your boundaries and stick to them. If you don’t want to perform oral without a condom or be on the receiving end of anal sex, for example, then don’t – no matter who tells you that ‘everyone does’.
Think about what you really want from escorting and plan to review your objectives so you don’t end up bitter and twisted by doing and hating such a personal job – think of life beyond escorting.
6) Network with other escorts where possible -
This forum is for ladies who want to connect, share info and buddy up… Also attend LADIES’ GTs and socials.  Look at and talk to others about what they are doing and how they are doing it to help decide how and where you want to market yourself.
7) Be aware that not everyone is nice. 
As a new escort, you are seen as fresh meat by a variety of predators.
8] If you are unsure about anything, ask. No matter how basic or silly the question may seem. 
As they say, the only silly questions are those you don’t ask. Join a forum or two with a safe environment to ask all sorts of questions which will be answered by people who have been there and done it. Some great forums with really good info for beginners to advanced providers are the Ladies Forums of the following boards:
http://VerifyHim.com
http://PillowTalkForum.com
http://CertifiedtoProvide.com
http://NaughtyReviews.com
http://TheEroticReview.com
http://IndependentGirls.com
Some other great resources chock full of info are:
http://SAAFE.info  
http://dating.com/ar…cort-resources/
http://StripperWeb.com
http://fairywhoremother.com

UPDATE:  ANOTHER DECENT GUIDE: https://www.reddit.com/r/SexWorkers/comments/4kbscq/escorts_newbie_guide_here_please_read_before/

What else can we add to the NEWBIE ESCORT START UP KIT, Ladies?

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