HEALTH & SAFETY COMPILATION FOR ESCORTS

PREVENTION AND PROACTIVITY:  Stay Safe Escorting… A COMPILATION from around the web, all in ONE place!

SCAMS AND RIP-OFFS: ALWAYS GET THE MONEY UP FRONT.
If a guy wants to pay using anything other than CASH, there is a 99% chance he is trying to scam you. Never take checks, gift cards, and if using Paypal or credit card make sure you receive payment before the appointment and that there is no way to cancel it. If he disputes your transaction, who do you think they are going to believe? if the guy says he left his wallet in his car there is a 99% chance he is driving away. This has happened to me a few times before the appointment when i asked for the cash. good thing i didn`t wait til after to collect.
I have gotten bad checks. I have had someone order something for me online in exchange for an appointment only to cancel the order. I have been called by men pretending to be modeling and porn agencies and they say they would like you to “try out” a reputable porn or modeling agency would never ask you to do sexual things/show your body/etc without signing a contract.
NEVER EVER join an escort agency without verifying their reputation.
Talk to several girls who have worked for them and ask how they were treated, were they payed correctly, etc. You don`t know what you are getting into joining an agency. There are scams like this, and there is also the risk of HUMAN TRAFFICKING or getting caught by a violent pimp.
Remember if it seems too good to be true, it probably is.
VERIFYING CLIENTS:
Please Refer to my popular ‘SCREENING 101 FOR PROVIDERS’ post HERE, to learn in-depth screening and verification tactics ranging from FREE of cost to CHEAP ($50 per YEAR).  You’ll also learn how to screen gents without them even knowing you’re doing so, at least, not so heavily, tee hee.  ;}~
RESEARCH THE CLIENTS:  HOPE FOR THE BEST, EXPECT THE UNEXPECTED, BUT PREPARE FOR THE WORST.
There are a few websites you can go on to check if your potential client is who he states he is, has been arrested, and/or has been blacklisted. These include…
For the United States:
Google their phone number, name, email address and work information.
Check if any accounts on facebook, LinkedIn, or message boards come up.
  • Type the full phone number (including area code) into Google’s search box; i.e., 555-555-1212.
  • You’ll see the number listed at dozens of different phone directories. Unfortunately, since Google changed the way they list phone numbers, this is what we have to work with.
  • If the number is attached to a business, that business (usually) will show up in the first five search results.
  • If the number is attached to a private household, the address most likely will not show up attached to the number. However, if that person has placed their number anywhere else on the Web, perhaps at a social networking site, then that listing will show up first.

You can find a lot of information about someone simply by entering their name or number in “quotation marks”, like this:

“Tony 3 Toes” , or… “555-555-1212″

If the person you’re looking for has an unusual name, you don’t necessarily need to put the name in quotation marks in order for this to work. In addition, if you know where the person lives or works or what clubs/organizations, etc. that they are associated with, you can try a variety of different combinations:

  • “Tony 3 Toes” montana
  • Tony3Toes@gmail.com “The Erotic Review”
  • site:NationalBlacklist.com “555-555-1212″

Google Image Search

Many people upload photos and images to the Web, and these images can usually found using a simple Google Images search, including clients.

  • You can upload an image from your computer
  • you can drag and drop an image from the Web
  • Google will scan the image and deliver search results that are related to that specific image
  • Other Reverse Image Search engines include TinEye, Image Raider, MSIS, Yandex, SocialCatfish and Karma Decay

Other US Blacklists and Search Databases:

  1. View an entire neighborhood.
  2. Check out business listings.
  3. Find names, addresses, and phone numbers (with directions to any location you want).
  4. Get a satellite, aerial, or hybrid view of the location you’re looking for.
  5. Get a street-level view of the location you’re looking for (not available for all areas).
  6. Find directions with live traffic updates.
For Canada (as well as United States and the United Kingdom):
For the United Kingdom:
  • DirectGov is a searchable public data search database of a wide range of government information and services in the United Kingdom, and is considered an excellent source of free online information.
  • Search Systems UK
  • UK Land Property Search
  • SAAFE.info has forums and blacklists of UK hobbyists and travelers to the UK.
For International Searches:
Red flags from the above searches include…
  • Talking about drugs or about violent or sexually violent subjects on social media or message boards.
  • No records of any sort (websites, phone numbers, email addresses, business reviews) for the work information he provided you.
  • Writing consistently negative reviews on message boards about one or more providers who have otherwise good reputations.
If a guy calls from a private number and will not give you his real phone number, it is most likely that he is going to do something unscrupulous at the very least, from not showing up, to stealing from you, to becoming violent with you.
A private number + an unwillingness to cooperate with even the most BASIC screening = Big Red flag, that he…
  • Has something to hide (a psycho wife, a mile-long rap sheet, etc.)
  • Is blacklisted and doesn’t want you to know (What was he blacklisted for??  Creepy!)
  • Has nefarious and malicious intentions (Worst case scenario, but has happened to too many of us, so WHY take the chance??)
Guys can now hide their phone numbers behind online fake `spoofed` phone numbers.
Call the number back, and if it doesn’t ring like a normal phone, chances are that it is a spoofed number, and you shouldn’t see the guy.
CHECK OUT THE LATEST BLACKLISTS BELOW:
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VerifyHim Blacklist Database, Forum and Reporting Tools:  http://VerifyHim.com
Blacklisted John Database, Forum and Reporting Tools:  http://blacklistedjohn.com/
ARM YOURSELF WITH A FREE PANIC ALARM, ONLY BETTER, WITH BSAFE MOBILE PANIC ALARM APP:
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The market for ‘panic alarm’ apps on smartphones is littered with simple apps which just make a lot of noise if you get attacked, but not much else. This is a mistake.

Smartphones have cameras, microphones, and can broadcast their location – basically everything you need to turn the phone into the ultimate safety device. So it’s surprising that so few startups are addressing this area. One that has been around since 2011 out of Denmark is PanicGuard. The app will sound an alarm, SMS someone, start recording video and track your location. But it’s expensive ($6 a month), and is failing to scale outside the UK/Europe.

Its main competitor is the bSafe app on iOS and Android from the startup called Bipper.  This has now launched a major push into the U.S. with both a free and paid-for model, and a way of using it for more everyday safety.  The service costs $2 per month or $20 yearly.

Now live on the U.S. iOS store and Android store, bSafe is pretty sophisticated. It not only alerts your friends, but also secures evidence and broadcasts a time-stamped video recording to them and sends them a map with your location. A user decides whether the siren and video should be activated when the alarm is pushed, meaning it works in ‘stealth mode’ for situations where someone wants to get help without alerting, for example, an abusive partner.

But this is not just an emergency app, as it contains several features to ensure the users’ everyday safety. These include the ability to allow you to invite friends to follow you home with live GPS tracking, broadcast just one location, and a ‘Fake Call’ feature makes the phone ring like a real phone call to help the user get out of an uncomfortable situation.

 

Another APP: Guardian Angel One

https://play.google….dianangel&hl=en

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With it, it will send text to up to 5 people you choose.  The cool thing about it is, you set the amount of time before it will send out a text to your circle..if you don`t disarm it before then then the message will go out along with a link to a map of your exact location.

This may be a good thing to use along with the phone call, because I think its good for a guy to be able to see that you have someone looking out for you by making that call.  But just in case he coerces you to make a call to say you are alright, having this as well, that you can set it before you get to your date so that he doesn’t have a clue you have this.

It has a password, and a pseudo password to stop the timer.  If you use your regular password, then the alarm stops and no message goes out.  If you use the pseudo password, then the alarm stops, but it sends an alert out to your circle immediately.  That way, even if you set it while on your date, if they try to make you disarm it, use the pseudo password, and it will appear to them as if it closed out, but in reality, you`ve just instantly alerted your circle.  Of course, if you do nothing at all then an alert goes out.
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General Safety 

  • Dress to Kill. Clogs, high heels, and tight skirts are hard to run and fight in, while scarves and long necklaces are easy to grab. If possible, modify your fashion style or wear comfortable clothing when walking alone. You can always change into dress-up clothes later. Or, think through how you would fight in your dress-up clothes. Would you kick off your high heels or hike your skirt up around your hips to run or kick? Would you utilize the points of your heels to gouge out an eyeball?  Have a plan just in case!
  • Make Eye Contact. It may be your first instinct to lower your gaze as you walk to your destination. But looking straight into the face of potential enemies is the better option. “Eye contact may scare off attackers because they fear you will be able to identify them,” says Mary Ellen Burns, a spokesperson for the Boston Police Department.
  • Keep Eyes and Ears Open, Hands Free. It is important to be alert to who and what is around you. Talking on a cell phone or listening to headphones makes you easy prey for a predator. The only reason you should be using your mobile phone is notify a friend of your whereabouts or to call for help. Also, limit the number of bundles you have to carry by using a backpack or bag with a shoulder strap. This will ensure that your hands are free to defend.
  • Tip from Tae Kwon Do Expert : The elbow is the strongest point on your body. If you are close enough to use it, do so, and HARD!
  • If a robber asks for your wallet and/or purse, DO NOT HAND IT TO HIM. Toss it away from you…. Chances are that he is more interested in your wallet and/or purse than you, and he will go for the wallet/purse. RUN LIKE MAD IN THE OTHER DIRECTION!
  • If someone asks you for money on the street, don`t pull out your wallet. If you feel you must give people change, have a separate change purse with only coins in it.
  • If you are ever thrown into the trunk of a car, kick out the back tail lights and stick your arm out the hole and start waving like crazy. The driver won`t see you, but everybody else will. This has saved lives.
  • Women have a tendency to get into their cars after shopping, eating, working, etc., and just sit (doing their checkbook, or making a list, etc.) DON`T DO THIS!  The predator will be watching you, and this is the perfect opportunity for him to get in on the passenger side, put a gun to your head, and tell you where to go. AS SOON AS YOU GET INTO YOUR CAR, LOCK THE DOORS AND LEAVE.
  • If someone is in your car holding you hostage with a gun to your head: DO NOT DRIVE OFF, Repeat: DO NOT DRIVE OFF! Instead, gun the engine and speed into anything, wrecking the car. Your Air Bag will save you. If the person is in the back seat they will get the worst of it. As soon as the car crashes bail out and run. It is better than having them find your body in a remote location.
  • A few notes about getting into your car in a parking lot, or parking garage:

A)  Be aware: look around you, look into your car, at the passenger side floor, and in the back seat.

B)  If you are parked next to a big van, enter your car from the passenger door. Most serial killers attack their victims by pulling them into their vans while the women are attempting to get into their cars.

C)  Look at the car parked on the driver`s side of your vehicle, and the passenger side.. If a male is sitting alone in the seat nearest your car,you may want to walk back into the mall, or work, and get a guard/policeman to walk you back out. IT IS ALWAYS BETTER TO BE SAFE THAN SORRY. (And better paranoid than dead.)

  • ALWAYS take the elevator instead of the stairs. Stairwells are horrible places to be alone and the perfect crime spot. This is especially true at NIGHT!)
  • If the predator has a gun and you are not under his control, ALWAYS RUN! The predator will only hit you(a running target) 4 in 100 times; and even then, it most likely WILL NOT be a vital organ. RUN, Preferably in a zig -zag pattern!
  • As women, we are always trying to be sympathetic: STOP; It may get you raped, or killed. Ted Bundy, the serial killer, was a good-looking, well educated man, who ALWAYS played on the sympathies of unsuspecting women. He walked with a cane, or a limp, and often asked `for help` into his vehicle or with his vehicle, which is when he abducted his next victim.
  • Crying Baby Scam: If you hear a crying baby outside your door, police say, `Whatever you do, DO NOT open the door..` The police say, `A popular serial killer has a baby`s cry recorded and uses it to coax women out of their homes thinking that someone dropped off a baby… Crying Baby Theory was mentioned on America’s Most Wanted when they profiled this serial killer in Louisiana.
  • Water scam: If you wake up in the middle of the night to hear all your taps outside running or what you think is a burst pipe, DO NOT GO OUT TO INVESTIGATE! These people turn on all your outside taps full blast so that you will go out to investigate and then attack.
  • There are situations where it can`t be avoided, but never get in the car with a man you don`t know, and if you do, make sure you get his license plate number so you can tell your friends or family; do so in front of him. That way he will know people are going to be looking for you and him if you go missing. Don`t get in the car with a man that you just met that same day. Often, the serial killers will meet girls at a bar or something and convince them to get in his car after hanging out for a few hours.
  • Don`t accept any kind of unsealed beverage from anyone you don`t know well, period. Always watch your drink and if you leave it unattended, pour it out and get a new one. If the guy asks, you can tell him its warm or the ice melted. If you`re having your friend watch your drink, make sure s/he isn`t too intoxicated to do a good job watching it. Be careful taking a hit off of a cigarette or joint from someone you don`t know well. They can put drugs in there too that will make you sick.
  • Educate the men you know about rape and the fact that no means no. When having kinky sex, using restraints or inflicting pain, always use a safe word so there is no misunderstanding, and when having sex with someone for the first time, talk about their expectations of the experience before you do it, if possible. Don`t have sex when you or the other person is under the influence of drugs or alcohol. This can lead to regret and bad decisions, or at worst, rape. Remember women can rape men too, so always make sure your partner is consenting.
  • It’s good to carry pepper spray, but be sure to actually practice using it before you need it. This way you will be sure that your pepper spray works and you will know how far it shoots. The pepper spray that mailmen use on dogs doesn’t work very well unless you actually hit the attacker in his face and eyes. It is better to get higher powered pepper spray, like the type police use. When you are walking alone, have your hand on your weapon, whether it is pepper spray, your keys or a heavy paperweight.
SOME NIFTY MACE AND PEPPER SPRAYS IN STEALTH MODE:
SOMETHING TO CONSIDER ABOUT PEPPER SPRAY USE:  Only use your pepper spray when absolutely necessary.  Be careful with pepper spray, because someone can easily turn it on you, so make sure you know HOW to use it and WHEN to use it.
If you can`t get your hands on pepper spray, opt for perfume, hairspray or peroxide (Thanks, Nicole Saunders!), which is, although not as long lasting, just as effective as pepper spray.
SOME NIFTY STUN GUNS IN STEALTH MODE:
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SOME NIFTY SHOOTING STUN GUNS ~ MORE AFFORDABLE & LESS DANGEROUS THAN TASERS

 

DDS101 The Dual Defense® Shooting Stun Gun $245.95

The Dual Defense® Shooting Stun Gun

NO BACKGROUND CHECK.
Shoots out 17 feet and incapacitates attacker for 5-15 minutes, and may be used as contact stun gun.

855700001-DPNK PhaZZer® Dragon Shooting Stun Gun $349.95

PhaZZer® Dragon Shooting Stun Gun Pink 80K

NO BACKGROUND CHECK.
Pink Dragon shuts off automatically preventing its use against you with its wrist strap safety pin.
SOMETHING TO CONSIDER ABOUT STUN GUN WEAPONS:  Be careful when carrying a weapon such as a gun, taser, or a knife, because you can get in trouble with the police, and you can also get assault charges or even murder charges if you hurt or kill someone who is attacking or robbing you. Just be careful and use your best judgement. Try to avoid confrontation if possible.

WHEN IT`S TOO LATE TO AVOID DANGEROUS CONFLICT:

If you have gotten yourself into a violent situation, the most important thing is to react immediately.

  • Run, Run, Run. If the predator has a gun but you are not under his control, take off. Experts say the predator will only hit you, a running target, four out of every 100 shots. And even then, it most likely will not be a vital organ.
  • Stay Put. Do not let your attacker take you to an abandoned area. If he does, the likelihood that you will be seriously injured increases tenfold, says Burns. You do not want to get to “crime scene number two” so do whatever it takes and never give up.
  • Hit the Attacker Where It Counts. The eyes, knees, throat and groin are very vulnerable, good places to gouge and kick. But listen to your instincts and try to determine if a counter attack by you is the best approach. If you do decide to fight, make sure your first move is as forceful as possible. It may be your only hope.
  • Try Anything and Everything. Additional approaches are offering your wallet, jumping out at a stoplight, doing something to cause an accident, or signaling to other drivers. If you are thrown into the trunk of a car, experts advise you to kick out the back tail lights, stick your arm out the hole, and start waving wildly. The driver won`t see you but everyone else will. This trick is said to have saved lives.
  • If you purchased pepper spray or a stun gun, USE IT, BUT WITH GOOD JUDGMENT!  This is your only chance to get away from someone who is potentially going to KILL you.  It is your LAST RESORT, though, because as previously mentioned, if you end up killing your assailant, you can incur serious charges against you, despite self defense.  Our legal system is MESSED UP, as many of us in this industry can attest to either personally or from what we’ve witnessed!
AVOID LAW ENFORCEMENT STINGS:
Escorts are often targeted by law enforcement and set up to be arrested in sting operations.
  • Most of the sting operations are outcalls at hotels, because it is easier for the police to get a hotel room than a house. They will usually be hiding in an adjoining or next door room.
  • Watch for a big van on any nearby street or in the parking lot of the agreed upon location you’re meeting your client, because they often have surveillance equipment in there, especially if the scene is a house.
  • If visiting his HOME/RESIDENCE:  Be sure to match his driver’s license ADDRESS to his HOME ADDRESS given to you for your outcall visit to him; If it is not a match, this can be a RED FLAG!  At this point, check property records on his address to see if it is rented or owned, and who the renter/owner is.  Do research on that renter/owner.  If things STILL do not add up, Require further evidence of his identity and proof of residenc, or simply don’t see him at all!
  • Law Enforcement will also conduct incall stings, although very rare with independents, especially with private incalls– unless they are suspected of being madames and/or running a brothel from their incall.  To avoid being a “low hanging fruit”, BE SURE TO SCREEN THOROUGHLY!  You do NOT want that kind of attention a your private incall!
  • If your Incall is at a Hotel, be extra cautious with your appearance (dress casually), traffic (do not see so many clients!), Ad Placement Details (Do NOT give out exact coordinates to your incall), and
  • Also for HOTEL incalls:  Be proactive with and aware of your digital privacy/discretion practices ~ Do NOT use hotel Wi-Fi to post ads or make VOIP calls– Use your own wi-fi hotspot from your phone or better yet, buy a temporary 3-month wi-fi hotspot device from Verizon at any Best Buy or Walmart, using a Vanilla Visa card or Cash!
The best way to avoid this is to screen your clients well.
Too much screening may make the clients feel uncomfortable, so I recommend only moderately screening most of your clients because you will be able to tell that most of them aren’t law enforcement when they call, especially if they are compliant about their employment information and sending you a scanned copy of their ID (PRIOR to meeting).
  • Highly screen any client who asks for full service, GFE, or anything explicit on the phone.
  • Highly screen clients that don`t seem to care what your rate is (the cops aren’t spending their own money anyways, and they know they`ll get it back).
  • Highly screen clients that already know where you are located before you give them directions.
  • Ask your clients what they look like and how old they are and highly screen physically fit clients ages 25-50.
  • Ask your clients their license plate numbers and where they work and highly screen clients that can`t tell you off the top of their head.
By highly screen, I mean…
  • Ask him for a readable photo or scan of his driver’s license to be emailed to you.
  • Google his email address to look for any social media accounts.
  • Google his phone number.
  • Get his license plate number and make and model of the car he will be driving.
  • Get a photo of him.
  • Get at least 3 references from other providers that have seen him.
The cops will hopefully have better things to do than fake all of the above information, but…
Be VERY careful and THOROUGH when contacting new clients’ “references”!
  • Make sure these are highly reviewed, current providers with a solid online track record and website.
  • Google and STUDY the references’ email addresses given to you!
  • Sometimes, cops and scam artists will create FAKE EMAIL ACCOUNTS with VERY Similar (off by one letter or digit!) websites and email addresses to highly reviewed ladies and then they instead will be the ones answering you via email pretending to be the provider reference, rather than the real reference!!
  • Be sure to PM the REAL reference on TER (if applicable), P411 and any other board she advertises on or uses for screening– plus you’ll find her REAL CONTACT INFO there, as well!!
KNOW SOME BASIC PERSONAL DEFENSIVE MANEUVERS AND TACTICS!
It takes many years of training to become proficient in any martial art, but you don’t have to be a Black Belt to be able to defend yourself.  Every person should know at least a few basic yet highly effective defensive maneuvers. Here are a few.
  • One of the most forceful defensive moves is a swift strike to the throat area just below the Adam’s Apple with your fingers or the side of a stiff hand.  Always think “stun and run.”
  • Another powerful response is to push both your hands up into the attackers chin, forcing his head to whip back.
  • Yet another super effective move is to push the side/edge of your hand directly underneath the middle of someone’s nose or strike underneath the nose with your palm heel.
  • Jabbing your fingers into a facial orifice such as eyes, ears and mouth can be quite successful as well.
  • Finally, if you are brought to the ground, try to get up immediately.  If you cannot, stay on your back keeping your body rounded with your feet up.  Keep the perpetrator away by kicking your legs and feet.  If a person gets on top of you while you are on your back, keep your elbows and hands up in front of your face.  Then try to push the person off by bumping your pelvis up forcefully and using your hips to get him off balance.  Once he falls forward, try to roll onto your side and get up.
  • In addition to your natural weapons such as your hands, fingers, feet, legs, elbows and knees, Use anything you have, including your shoes, your bag, a credit card, your keys, and anything else as a weapon.
Although the above information may seem daunting, it is important not to live in fear because confidence and a positive attitude are two of your strongest weapons. Remember to keep your eyes open and walk with your head up high and shoulders back and never compromise your personal style.So go ahead and put on your Manolos, grab your Louis Vuitton bag and arm yourself with style and safety!
Types of Rapists and How to Avoid ThemThis article is about the 4 types of rapists and how to avoid them.   This is something every escort should know, as we are at the top of the list of the most vulnerable and susceptible to become victims of rape and violence, unfortunately.POWER REASSURANCE RAPIST:

  • Sometimes called the gentleman rapist, because his motivation is not to harm the woman, just to have sex with her.
  • Sometimes these rapists will appear not to realize what they are doing is rape and believe that the woman wants them.
  • Usually a blitz attack or a peeping tom.
  • Often socially awkward and shy around women.
  • Will often reassure the woman that he doesn’t want to hurt her.
  • Expresses guilt and remorse and often compliments the woman on her looks and other things.
  • How to Avoid: He is the most likely to stop because the woman is resisting. Use extreme tactics and be aggressive and show him that you are angry and you are definitely not consenting. He may threaten you with a weapon, but he is unlikely to use it.

 

POWER ASSERTIVE RAPIST

  • Feels insecure and inadequate around women, but covers it up by acting overly macho and aggressive.
  • His goal is not to harm the woman, but he doesn’t care if he does end up hurting her.
  • May use a con to lure you into his location and rape you or a blitz attack.
  • Mainly uses verbal threats, but may use a weapon to ensure you do what he says.
  • Often socially competent and known as macho and aggressive. Likely a drinker and may be intoxicated.
  • Sees women as inferior to men and as objects. Low opinion of women.
  • Likes to “talk dirty” and will often involve the female by asking her to do things, but doesn’t care about her pleasure or pain.
  • His goal is to humiliate the victim. Often, he will rip your clothing to scare and intimidate you.
  • Often he is athletic and has a masculine type job, such as construction or police.
  • How to Avoid: He won`t respond to begging or pleading. The more angry you get, the more it will escalate the situation. If you are aggressive he will see it as a challenge to his masculinity. In my opinion, it is best to remain calm and do what he says, because his intent is usually not to harm the victim physically, but this can happen when he gets angry.

 

ANGER RETALIATORY RAPIST

  • Rapes because of displaced anger. Seems to be angry at all women.
  • He blames the victim for his problems and shows extreme anger.
  • He typically is very violent sexually and doesn’t attempt any foreplay. Uses sex as a weapon and frequently humiliates the victim.
  • Often causes serious injury to the victim or kills her.
  • Often a stranger attack, and he seeks women of his own race.
  • He sees the attack as a message to others in his crusade against women.
  • How to avoid: Don’t challenge or enrage this rapist. Talking him out of it will be useless. Try to either escape or incapacitate the rapist. The more angry he gets the more violent he will become. He has a higher level of violence than the power rapists. Be extremely complaint with the rapist`s demands and only try to escape or incapacitate him if you are sure it will work, or else he will become more violent.

 

ANGER EXCITATION RAPIST

  • This is the worst, most dangerous rapist, but luckily, he is also the rarest. If you get this rapist, his intent is probably to kill you, so you must escape.
  • He is a sexual sadist. He gets sexual gratification from his victim`s pain.
  • He will usually use a con to attack the victim, such as offering a ride, or picking up an escort. These men often select escorts, because they wrongly believe that people won`t look for us or miss us. For this reason, we are more likely to run into this type of rapist.
  • Carries a “tool kit” of items he uses for the rape, such as duct tape, scissors, a weapon.
  • He is socially competent and sometimes a sociopath. He can play the part of a nice guy. He gains the victim`s trust before the attack.
  • The attack will often go on for a long time. He may hold the woman prisoner for days.
  • Tortures the victim.
  • Has a large collection of pornography.
  • May have bizarre fetishes and act out various sexual fantasies on the victim.
  • May take a souvenir such as jewelry or record the attack with photos or video to re-live it later.
  • Takes countermeasures to make sure his DNA isn`t left, such as using a condom or contaminating the evidence.
  • Often college educated.
  • Engages in a “secret life” of rape.
  • Mostly attacks strangers.
  • How to avoid: Don`t agitate him because violence increases with anger. This rapist is probably planning to kill you, so you must try to escape from him. Usually he has done a lot of planning for the attack, so you must outsmart him. Do whatever you can to escape.

 

STAYING SAFE ON OUTCALLS ~ ALWAYS HAVE A SAFETY BUDDY, AND ALWAYS CALL, NOT TEXT!:

DO YOU HAVE A SAFETY BUDDY?HOW ABOUT SECURITY CALLS? TEXTING IS NOT ENOUGH…Texts are totally useless for security: 

  • Sending a text does not guarantee the network has delivered it.
    I’ve had texts take 24 hours to go through.  Sometimes they don`t at all.
  • Sending a text does not guarantee the network has delivered it to the right number.
  • Sending a text does not guarantee the security buddy has seen it.
    Your security buddy lost their phone or their battery went flat or they`re an escort too and they got an “Immediate” call, or they got drunk or fell asleep or…..

Even if your text message security goes through okay, you are still not covered:

  • (Highly unlikely scenario, but still possible) The client has another agenda. They see you do your security texts. They then incapacitate you then later they send an “All clear” security text to your buddy. You are not reported missing for days or weeks..

Security is a phone call.

  • Phone just before you enter address or hotel.
  • Phone just before you leave the call and state that you will see the driver in 2 minutes. This discourages any last minute abductions.
  • If you don`t have a driver, phone your buddy when you are back in your own car/taxi/Uber/Lyft, well away from the client`s location.

These calls create a traceable timeline for the police to follow if you do go missing.

-This system will be manual at first, but will become automated once perfected
-This system will be available for any lady who wants to volunteer as a safety buddy on specified days convenient to her
-This system will be a tool for ladies who wish to contact the participating safety buddy volunteer in order to have someone know where they are before, during and after an outcall
-The safety buddy volunteer must only be contacted by the provider if listed as available on the day the provider is in need of a safety buddy
-It will be the provider`s sole responsibility to call the safety buddy before and after each call
-The safety buddy volunteer is free to call the provider if she becomes worried or alarmed due to the provider`s failure to check in and check out with the safety buddy volunteer
Who wants to become a volunteer?  Who wants to participate in the system?
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SEXUAL HEALTH AND SAFETY
  • -NEVER EVER use oil with condoms for penetrative sex.  Oil breaks down the natural proteins in latex/rubber.  Water-based lube is the absolute safest, even safer than silicone-based.
  • -NEVER floss or brush your teeth for an hour before giving unprotected oral sex (use an anti-bacterial mouthwash if you`re concerned about bad breath or just want to freshen up), and others recommend quickly looking over the genitals you`re about to go down on for obvious signs of contagious STDs (including genital warts, which can potentially be transmitted from genitals to mouth).
  • -Pre-cum can contain HIV, and although not letting men come in your mouth SIGNIFICANTLY reduces your already low risk to even lower levels, if you are concerned about becoming infected via pre-cum while performing fellatio you have two risk-reduction options: not taking the head of his penis in your mouth or using barriers for oral sex.
  • -NEVER EVER use non-latex condoms unless they are polypropylene.  Any other condoms are not recommended by the CDC and do NOT protect against HIV.
  •  -DO NOT EVER use condoms coated with Nonoxynol-9, a spermicide. Studies have shown that N-9 can cause genital lesions and damage to the rectal lining, allowing ease of access to STD`s.  Click here for more info on N9 and it`s effects on the body —> www.guttmacher.org/pubs/tgr/08/2/gr080204.html
  • -The main cause of failure of condoms is lack of lube.  Use loads; With Anal sex, if you think you`ve use too much lube… it`s probably about the right amount.
  • -Some medicated vaginal creams, like monistat, estrace, femstat, vagisil, premarin are all NOT latex-safe, so NEVER ever use them before intercourse.
  • -Don`t put on more than one condom on a client at one time; it doesn`t increase safety, and it causes friction between the two layers making a split much more likely.
HELPFUL HEALTH, SCREENING & SAFETY LINKS:
  1. www.sexuality.org/concise.html
  2. www.scarleteen.com/
  3. www.immunize.org/catg.d/p4075abc.pdf
  4. www.redbookmag.com/love-sex/advice/best-sex-article-tips#slide-1
  5. www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/advice/
  6. www.yourtango.com/sex-advice
  7. www.askmen.com/top_10/dating/worst-sex-advice.html
  8. www.nlm.nih.gov/medlineplus/sexualhealth.html
  9. www.cdc.gov/sexualhealth/
  10. www.webmd.com/sex/default.htm
  11. frostd.org/MainPage.html
  12. www.caeny.org/index.html
  13. www.nswp.org/
  14. www.swopusa.org/
  15. www.desireealliance.org/resources/support.htm
  16. www.swaay.org/index.html
  17. hips.org/
  18. www.scapa-lv.org/
  19. www.redumbrellaproject.org/
  20. pony212.wordpress.com/
  21. www.urbanjustice.org/ujc/projects/sex.html
  22. swop-nyc.org/wpress/
  23. https://play.google….ipper.app.bsafe

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